While styling the other day, I found myself in an interesting conversation with a designer friend. In a nutshell, we came to the agreement that a contrast is better than a match, so that each piece stands out in its best light.
The people in our lives are like that too. A contrast is more compatible than an exact match. I know for myself, I am a terrible procrastinator, often because I spend so much time planning, it leaves me in a scramble to get things done. I don’t need another person in my life with that matching trait. I need the contrast of a spontaneous person who is willing to wing it a little, break me out of my rut, and help me get moving and experiencing. And they don’t need someone just like them, for that matter. Living all for today would mean getting blindsided by a tomorrow they aren’t prepared for. So embrace the contrasts in the people you love. Don’t try to make them act like you. It is those differences you fell in love with so that each of you can shine in your own unique way.
Here’s another contrast for you. A wonderful event called Fall In Love, coordinated by Finesmith Muse Inspiration Week 7, Winter Zhukovsky. And despite her name, she has created a fall shopping wonderland that is so autumny you can smell the apple cider.
From November 23rd until November 30th, 35 leading designers have come together, many offering event exclusives. Additionally, a fashion show displaying these designs is planned on November 26 at 4pm. Hunt items courtesy of Finesmith are also tucked here and there, so you can combine your shopping and hunting in one place. Here is your TAXI.
And speaking of contrasts, while the event theme is a color-filled autumn, in honor of our coordinator Winter, here are two cozy Shine by [ZD] event offerings, but with a winter themed twist.
Jacket: Angelina Jacket Pink & Black – shine by [ZD] at the Fall in Love event
Dress/Belt: Mica Rollneck Dress Black – shine by [ZD] at the Fall in Love event
Makeup: Frosted Elegance Silver – Shellac
Earrings: Tamara Earrings – Ben’s Beauty at fi*friday until 11/28
Boots: Cantebury boots Burgandy – Loodes of London
Tights: Poka Dot Tights Grey – Cannibelle
Bag: Elephant Bag Dark Grey – Toki Doki at The Dressing Room Fusion
Hair: Rasberry Beret – Exile
Poses: Liz – Imeka at Kustom9
Landscaping: Two Moon Gardens